But – when you’re not engaging in that f-word, are you engaging in another?
If you fight all the time because he is driving you crazy then trying to blame you for the way he behaves, you are engaged with a narcissist. She writes, “Seducing women feeds his narcissism, and fills his core emptiness–it’s his addiction.
” If you wouldn’t be friends, you should not be lovers.
I know that’s painful, but if you can break the cycle, you’ll be much happier in the end, I promise.Remember, narcissists want to hook you so they can continue to get what they want from you.So they will be nice every once in a while so that you become hooked on their kindnesses and explain away their bad behavior just hoping the “good guy” will appear again.” And there you have not only manipulation (you know I like you) but deflection and projection (does this relationship need to be Facebook official in order to mean something to you? Suddenly you’re the bad guy when he’s the one who won’t give you a clear answer. It is because crazy women have crazy sex with their men. It is the only reason that these women are tolerated.” Replace men with women in those sentences and vice versa and there you have it. It is almost impossible to turn a booty call into a boyfriend, unless you also want to be a manipulator and are willing to engage in a relationship with high drama.If you’re dating someone who uses this crazy-making technique on you, it’s never going to get better. If you want to be a willing participant in a relationship with another willing participant, do what the girls at On the off chance you guys do go out — and you probably do sometimes go out because why else would you even wonder if he was boyfriend potential? Oh sure, once in a while he’ll pay for both of you — just so you can’t totally write him off as a mooch.