Cool girls know that getting or asking for help, and communicating about it in a positive way means keeping their own emotional agenda at bay. They dont get nervous or anxious around certain people, places, and situations.Cool girls dont require or ask too much from a man at any one time. Cool girls dont need a man to always validate their emotions and ideas.The protocols and practices of dating, and the terms used to describe it, vary considerably from country to country and over time.
In my experience, after hanging out with hundreds of men and getting the same general idea of what they mean when they say a cool girl, they mean that the woman gets certain social and emotional dynamics that resonate deeply with men.With the use of modern technology, people can date via telephone or computer or meet in person.Dating may also involve two or more people who have already decided that they share romantic or sexual feelings toward each other.And more importantly, theres a subtle implication that the woman is someone that the man would like to spend time with.That being around her is all about good experiences and fun, positive energy that the man can relate to, and not about any negative things that men unfortunately associate with women they dont like. Ever been talking about something you feel strongly or kind of emotional about and the guy you were talking to either shut down, seemed irritated, or started in on you for some unknown reason? What are these women doing that makes men see them that way?