Re-engaging a girl through text If things with a girl have fizzled out and you haven’t texted the girl in a while, what you’ll need to is re-ignite that attraction with the woman.
Get things rolling with a little banter and remind her of why she found you so fun and interesting in the first place.
A great benefit to this way of asking a girl out is that it eliminates the tension and expectation that might be associated with an official date.
Here’s an example of how to ask a girl out without technically asking her on a date: “I got to go shopping for winter clothes and could use a girl’s eye if you wanna tag along and give me tips on what accentuates my hips!
You can then use the some of the banter techniques mentioned above to re-build attraction with the woman.
(For more tips on how to text girls, check out the Art of Charm Podcast on how to text girls as well as the article on Text Game) Once he realized attraction was something he could learn, Brian spent way too much of his free time studying and practicing everything he could find on the subject.
Here’s an example of what to text a girl to create that sense of urgency: “haven’t heard from you in a while, is this still your number? If she doesn’t respond to this text it’s a sign the girl has moved on and it’s time you should to – perhaps by actually deleting her number.
” try texting the girl something along the lines of “What are you up to this weekend?
” Once you get a woman to imagine all the great benefits that come with going on a date with you, she’s going to start getting interested and excited.
The more excited she feels the better chance you have of getting the girl to go out with you.
Rather than diving straight into asking “Want to get drinks Thursday?
” you can first highlight the benefits by asking the girl a question along the lines of “Do you like tacos, margaritas, good music, and great company?