But he will be interested in one woman more than the others and will befriend/orbit her.He will not immediately ask her out because he better be 100% sure she will say yes.Married people have the best dating advice since they have already done it!My goal is to simply pass on, from one teen to another, some thoughts I have developed from my observations, personal experience, and advice from others.Given this environment, the man’s strategy is to become friends with the woman he’s interested in and hope that she will become interested in him romantically.He’s going to treat her well, because he likes her a lot. In this article I am going to call it “dating” and define it as “the process of finding a spouse.” I do not claim to be an expert: I realize that many varying opinions about dating float around Christian circles jumping over each other, getting mixed together, and consuming some people.
Even if she does accept him on a date and the relationship doesn’t work out, her church girlfriends would not feel right dating him because “you don’t date your friend’s ex’s”.
I do not intend to defend a certain set of rules, or refute any.
Neither will I pretend like I have the best advice, since I am not even married.
As you can see, from the man’s perspective, dating within the church is an incredibly frustrating experience.
As a result you see a lot of women not being asked out on dates and wondering whether the modern man is emasculated.